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Renee Gorman's avatar

This conversation was done with such care and compassion. It’s all so hard. Thank you and well done.

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I have approached this current situation as a person whose religious upbringing was saturated in eschatology that requires the survival of "Israel" at all costs. I believe this to be incorrect theology, based on an incorrect reading of scripture and an incorrect definition of Israel. (Obviously I'm not unique in this; lots of people have rejected this end times view.) I've been fighting against the very thing we're seeing right now one person at a time beginning in the early 1990s. That's when I ventured into my first television news job and found myself reporting on mideast peace talks--not the first or the last. The reason I've painstakingly been having these conversations is because until a person can let go of the end times belief that "Israel" must be protected and supported at all costs, they won't vote for anyone who refuses to hold Israel the nation accountable for its actions. Believe it or not, I've made headway with quite a few people and hopefully I'm not the only one having conversations and hopefully the people I'm discussing this with are turning around and talking with others. Like a MLM situation.

Not gonna lie...on October 7/8 I thought to myself, "Gaza is about to be obliterated." Among my friends, I was the first to sign on to a ceasefire (I believe that was true in this group as well) because I believed that was the only way to stop the inevitable. But for decades the United States has enabled a situation in which Israel the nation has been allowed to ignore international law and act as a bully and it was never going to be us stopping the carnage. With all of the tendrils of all kinds of activity between the U.S. and Israel the country, it's likely not even possible. To be clear: HAMAS is a terrorist organization that bears the blame for this situation. I don't know if those planning October 7 were just dumb or if this was all calculated, but if it's the latter, they had to have understood the eventual outcome. 

As far as Israel existing as a state...that ship has sailed and there shouldn't be any consideration otherwise. But that doesn't mean that Israel the nation doesn't have the same kinds of responsibilities that are expected from other nation states. (Ironically, I've been reading the bible chronologically this year and I had forgotten how much of the old testament is Israel the people being reminded of all the ways they are not doing what they're supposed to do.) It is frustrating to me that war still exists at all, since we should be more evolved than those early history people vying for land, but obviously it's a thing men need to do and we're all going to be forever embroiled. The fact that we have actual formulas for genocide and legal definitions for terrorism, both of which allow for loopholes in the actual slaughter of humans who have nothing to do with a power struggle shows that violence is a protected value. I love the idea of a two-state confederation, but there is no one currently in power in the region that I would trust to get that started. I don't trust the U.S. to get that started. I support the U.S. funding a coalition of other diplomatic envoys who can forge that path, if it comes to that.

As an American who is largely a pacifist, it chaps me that so much of my tax money pays for weapons, especially when those weapons are sold to other countries. (It's one thing to make them for ourselves for our own protection; it's quite another to export them and arm all manner of countries and groups.) If it was up to me, I'd put all that money toward diplomacy and mediation and literally anything that would avoid war.  

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