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Heather's avatar

Treats are absolutely getting me through. We closed on our first house 9/19 and had to euthanize our old lady dog immediately after last week. Chaos lottery is doing its thing out here. I’m sharing this because I actually posted a photo in the chat of my dog and the house last week just wanting to put some positive news out there in a sea of horror. I am deeply sad, but had 14 years with my girl and I feel her everywhere. She helped me grow up from 21-35. One of our treats this week has been this pumpkin bread I made and was eating as I listened: http://www.whatmegansmaking.com/2010/10/pumpkin-bread.html. Very easy and so good, has been on rotation here for a long time. Add chocolate chips (or walnuts or pecans or make a praline, Sarah) if you must.

Also just appreciating the past 2 episodes where you both have spoken a bit more to “showing the math,” like when Sarah names the scolding tone is often for her past self and Beth named today the real contempt she has for Hegseth, but tries not to get stuck there. It makes sense we are often getting a conversation where a lot of processing has already occurred to get to the more evolved and less emotional takes. At times when listening I have felt frustrated at what I have thought of as intellectualizing when I’m listening from a place of rage or grief. I am sometimes hearing things from you, or at least contextualizing them, for the first time, and use these conversations as a way to process through my own emotions and hopefully arrive at a somewhat more evolved, sensible place. I don’t always get there, it’s a work in progress. I try to remind myself that while it feels good to be met where I am, and I like a good spicy bitch session from time to time, the work of PP is not to just add more noise, and I really appreciate that. I also think it is helpful to hear sometimes that grace isn’t always where you begin.

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Kaysi Thompson's avatar

I live just outside of Portland and wanted to ugly cry when you all were applauding targeted cities for their mostly-calm responses. 😭❤️😭 I have been so proud of our area for responding with its quirky sense of whimsy and I pray with all my heart that our communities can stay strong enough not to be provoked into violence. Thank you all for seeing us. 🥲🥲🥲

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