Nothing Ever Changes (Until It Does)
Fighting despair, finding wins, and the case for heat over hot
When we look at the news right now — Iran, the airports, the corruption, the measles — it’s tempting to decide none of it matters because, individually, we can’t fix any of it. Nihilism is tempting, and we talk about how sometimes nihilism represents pride, but maybe in the right dose, it’s more like humility. Either way, “nothing matters” is being proven wrong every day. Special elections are producing surprising results. Courts are holding tech companies accountable. And people are figuring it out when institutions fail (I’m especially moved by the story of an underground railroad set up to bring Ukrainian children home from Russia). I say in this episode that my emotional cocktail has a splash of nihilism in it. But the main ingredient is my conviction that our attention and our care and our efforts make a difference.
Plus: please clap for my favorite segue in the history of Pantsuit Politics. From: “perhaps we aren’t sleepwalking into a dystopian nightmare” to “are we in a smut renaissance?” facilitated by the shelving of an erotic chatbot. If this doesn’t end your Friday with joy, I don’t know what will. -Beth
Topics Discussed
Nihilism is Having A Moment
Signs of Hope
Outside of Politics: Smut Renaissance
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Episode Resources
In Praise of Stove-Touching - by Jonathan V. Last (The Bulwark)
OpenAI puts erotic chatbot plans on hold ‘indefinitely’ (Financial Times)
Are We in a ‘Smut Renaissance’? (The New York Times)
Watch Heated Rivalry (HBO Max)
Red, White & Royal Blue (MacMillan Publishers)
Episode Transcript
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I can’t wait to hear people’s thoughts on Heated Rivalry! “Mystery, subtlety, tension” is how Beth described a good formula for what’s actually hot, and I was surprised to find all those elements when I watched it. I came in expecting smut I wouldn’t care about, and it really surprised me with how engaging the whole story ended up being. I’m curious what others think if you’ve watched it!